I’ve stopped giving advice (or providing an opinion) unless explicitly asked for it. I’ve held for the longest time the same position that most living souls don’t want you to problem solve, they want their choices validated. Sometimes, they want someone who will listen, empathize and if asked, think of problem-solving ideas — not someone who provides immediate advice.

Other times the best advice is for them to talk to Jesus, he is greater than me.

Heyman’

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