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Every time I see a “solo date” post on social media, I feel a bit… well, conflicted, like seeing a cat dressed as a pirate. I mean, it’s cute, but is it necessary? I’ve always believed people should use social media however they like. If something resonates, I’ll engage; if not, I just scroll past. But these solo date posts started to bug me, and I had to wonder why.

I’ve been embracing solo outings since back in the day when I was a teenager, before I had status and before I had a pager. Seeing others celebrate what I already know to be great is cool. iGuess it’s interesting to see others share something I’ve found valuable. The solo date label might even help people reframe these experiences as something enjoyable and fulfilling rather than lonely or awkward.

Let’s break it down, so it can forever and consistently be broke…

The term solo date has taken off as a way to reclaim and celebrate spending time alone as a choice, not something to feel embarrassed about. For some, especially women, going out alone may have traditionally felt awkward or stigmatized, so calling it a solo date brings an empowering, self-nurturing energy.

This is part of a larger movement that encourages people to prioritize themselves, enjoy their own company, and practice self-care; concepts that have recently gone mainstream. For some, framing it as a solo date elevates the experience, turning a simple outing into something that feels special or even romantic.

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